Managing Stubborn Students: Classroom Strategies That Work

 Managing Stubborn Students: Classroom Strategies That Work

By Mr. VanDusen – Brain Fusion with Mr. VanDusen

We all know that one student who just won’t budge. They refuse to follow instructions, challenge authority, and seem resistant to consequences. But instead of letting one or two students derail your
entire classroom, let’s explore some effective strategies for managing stubborn student behavior.

Why Do Students Act Out?

Before we dive into solutions, we have to understand the why behind student misbehavior. Behavior is communication, and students act out for a variety of reasons:

• Lack of Control – Some students have little control over their personal lives and seek to assert themselves in the classroom.
• Emotional Regulation Issues – Many students struggle to manage their emotions, especially during stressful transitions like puberty.
• Desire for Attention or Autonomy – Some students feel that even negative attention is better than being ignored.
• Frustration with Academic Content – Students who are lost in a subject (like math or history) may act out rather than admit they need help.

As educators, our job is to figure out the underlying cause and address it accordingly.

3 Types of Stubborn Students

Not all stubborn students are the same. Here are three common types and how to handle them:

1. The Defiant Student

This student openly challenges authority, refusing to comply with instructions. As a military officer, I naturally expect my rank and experience to command respect—but in a classroom, students don’t care about your background. Instead of engaging in power struggles, stay calm and focus on relationship-building to establish trust.

2. The Passive-Aggressive Student

This student resists quietly—by ignoring instructions, making side comments, or subtly pushing boundaries. They often thrive on sarcasm and humor, but sometimes, their jokes cross the line. A private conversation outside the classroom can help set expectations while maintaining rapport.

3. The Anxious Student

Some students resist work out of fear of failure rather than defiance. They may ask for constant reassurance or hesitate to complete tasks. Encourage a growth mindset, provide positive reinforcement, and create a safe space for mistakes.

5 Strategies for Managing Stubborn Students

Now that we understand why students act out, here are five practical strategies to manage their behavior effectively:

1. Build Relationships First

Students are more likely to cooperate when they feel respected and understood. Take time to connect with students outside of academics—comment on their interests, ask about their hobbies, and show that you care.

2. Offer Choices and Autonomy

Giving students some control over their learning environment reduces resistance. Examples:

• “Would you rather work at your desk or in the hallway?”
• “Do you want to write a summary or create flashcards?”

Even giving the illusion of choice can make a difference. For instance, I once told my class, “We can either take notes or watch a documentary and discuss it.” Predictably, they chose the video, but both options led to the same learning outcome.

3. Use Logical Consequences

Punishments should be directly related to the misbehavior. If a student spills chips, they clean it up. If they misuse a Chromebook, they complete work on paper. This makes the consequence feel fair rather than arbitrary.

4. Reinforce Positive Behaviors

Instead of only correcting bad behavior, catch students doing the right thing and acknowledge it. Praise them privately if needed, especially for students who don’t like public attention. A small moment of recognition can build confidence and reinforce good habits.

5. Stay Calm and Consistent

Power struggles are a trap. The best response to defiance is a neutral, consistent approach. Set clear expectations and follow through with consequences while keeping your emotions in check.

What If Nothing Works?

If a student’s behavior remains unchanged despite these efforts, consider these steps:

• Involve Parents Early – Open communication with families can provide insight and support.
• Collaborate with Colleagues – Other teachers may have strategies that work for this student.
• Reflect on Your Approach – Sometimes, adjusting your own strategy can make a difference.

Final Thoughts

Managing stubborn students is never easy, but every student has the potential to grow and change. By building relationships, offering choices, and staying consistent, you can create a classroom environment where even the most challenging students can thrive.

What are your go-to strategies for handling stubborn students? Share in the comments below!

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John has been teaching elementary and middle school since 2007 and serves as a coach and instructor for the U.S. Army Reserves. This podcast is here to give teachers fast, practical strategies for busy educators to enhance their classrooms.

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